Let me paint a scene for you all.
[In a medical school hallway, two academics greet my visibly pregnant cousin Susan, who has a history of anorexia prior to pregnancy that should have been clearly apparent to these people who work on the same floor as her]
Not Clueless Academic: (to my cousin Susan) How’s the mama? Lookin’ more like a mama these days!
Clueless Academic: (to Not Clueless Academic, in front of my cousin Susan) I can’t wait until that skinny minnie gets HUGE!!